the nomad diary

In late 2004, a handful of elite kids decided to try something out for the first time.  By early 2005, a couple million more had joined them.  In the beginning, prior to the spark, nobody was on it.  Nobody.  It crept in quietly, ghost-like, as all great addictions do.  By the time we recognized it for what it was, it was far too late, and we couldn’t have cared less.  Most everyone who did it, loved it; because they wanted to, because really they didn’t have much choice.

Regular kids turned junkies at the drop of a dime.  Worried/confused parents began to appear in the media.    What could we say to explain ourselves?  It made us feel accepted, one with a movement (and what generation doesn’t want that?), so we never questioned going full steam ahead.  We did it while eating breakfast, before, after, and during class, while watching TV, and for a few minutes before bed each night.  We did it when we were feeling bored, proud, lonely, or despondent.  It enhanced the positive and soothed the negative in a way that tailored to our demand for instant, easy gratification.  It was there when we wanted it, and it didn’t cost a thing.  We used it every day, multiple times a day, not as an integrated part of our daily routine, but an ever-present opportunity to break away into another world.

It was easy, interactive, and escapist.  We revered and appreciated it for being all of these things at once.  The point was to see, though to be sure, being seen was really at the heart of the matter; narcissism hidden by a thin veil of voyeurism.  It was intuitive, even familiar, but also completely novel.  It was simple, yet spectacularly complex.  It was the past, the present, and to a greater degree than we ever could have known, the future.

It was Facebook.

In the half-decade since its inception, Zuckerberg’s dorm room experiment, freed from the chains of exclusivity that marked the early years, has become a veritable empire.  As cheap addictions and social media innovations go, Facebook is king.  According to the Facebook.com statistics page, there are now 800 million users; half of these sign in no less than once per day.

In honor of conservative estimation, let’s assume each of these 400 billion people logs on for 10 minutes per day, although I would bet my belly button that the true number is closer to 20.  400 million people x 10 minutes daily= 4 billion minutes.   Divided by 60, 67 million hours.  Divided by 24, 2.8 million days.  Again, by 365, 7,610 years.

Take a moment to digest this fully.  Every single day, human beings collectively spend 7,610 years on Facebook.  In the coming year, no less than 2.8 million years of real human time will be spent updating statuses, poking, posting pictures, writing on walls, etc.  Don’t forget, these numbers are only including the 400 million who use Facebook on a daily basis.

And of course, it should be kept in mind that Facebook continues to grow at an absolutely stunning rate:

YEAR     # of users

2004     1 million

2005    5.5 million

2006     12 million

2007     50 million

2008     100 million

2009     350 million

2010     500 million

2011     800 million

2012    1 BILLION plus (projected)

Forgive my wanting tact, but you would have to be nearly brain-dead not to appreciate that these numbers are somehow of the utmost significance.  But how?  What exactly does it mean for  a website to consume 2.8 million years of human cognition in 365 days?

This amount of time is almost unfathomable for the human mind, but consider this- in 84 years Ben Franklin managed to found the first U.S. hospital, library, fire department, and police department, reach fluency in six languages, start the American Philosophical Society, own and operate several businesses, hold numerous public positions, found two universities, and lay claim to dozens of important inventions.  Though few among us can match the industry or prolific nature of Mr. Franklin, none can argue the power of a human hour put to good use.

If you are interested in losing faith in your species, or at the very least, gaining an understanding of just how un-Franlinlike we are, keep the aforementioned 2.8 million year figure in mind as you browse your Facebook news feed.  Once you have been sufficiently caught up on everything you have zero use in knowing, take a moment to reflect on the fact that what you have just seen is a cross-section of 2.8 million cognitive years spent, never to be returned.

If history has one lesson to teach, it is that we human beings have an exceptional ability to squander gifts of innovation.  It can come down to one of of two issues- misuse and overuse- though it usually comes down to both.   Automobiles, television, nuclear capability, antibiotics, genetic modification, factory farming, just to name a few, have each fallen victim to overuse and/or misuse in their own unique way.

That we spend such an astounding amount of time on Facebook is not an inherent dilemma; it is a matter of how this time is spent.

For the first time in history we have 800 million mouths united with 800 million pairs of ears under the same virtual roof.  What is being said?  What is being heard?

You don’t need me to tell you the answer to this, but I will anyway.  What we have now is a trend where a whole lot of intelligent, competent people are presenting themselves as being nothing more than a hoard of shallow, brainless, narcissists.  Admittedly, I generalize, but I think you know just what I mean.  Facebook could have been anything- it was a creation just waiting to be defined by us, the consumers.  What we did was use it as a vessel for championing a brand of self-absorption too uncouth even for the hyper-individualized American reality.  We saw not potential for the spread of great ideas, or the betterment of a generation, but an opportunity for shameless ego promotion.

What we now must answer is whether we are able and willing to break away from this.   If not, what does that say about our generation?  If so, how is it possible?

I shudder to answer the former, but as for the latter:  Revolution.

And what a lovely revolution it would be.  I can see it now.

There would be art, ideas, and intelligent discourse.  There would be writers writing, creators creating, and rebels rebelling where there were none before.  Brilliant ideas would spread like wildfire.

There would be people understanding that the luxury of an online identity is having the power to control the way in which we present ourselves, that though real life requires us to process and respond to information in real-time, Facebook gives us the gift of delay; contemplation preceding interaction.  There would be people seeing this moment for what it is, an opportunity to share what is best in us.

These most precarious times are no time for wasted cognition.  Tomorrow is less certain than ever, and only the hearts and minds of youth have what it takes to usher in an era that was better than the last.

The task before us is huge indeed, but 2.8 million years of effort should be a pretty decent start.

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Blogging is the most important form of self expression to arise in the last 20 years.  It is the exemplar of 21st century social interconnectedness.  Don’t get me wrong, I love Facebook every bit as much as the next web junkie, and though I choose to abstain from Twitter, I can see the benefit in it as well, but nothing compares to blogging.  

That being said, I HATE the term “blog”.  Blog sounds like a board game, or the name of a talking dinosaur, or maybe a medieval torture technique.  Who decided to apply such ridiculous nomenclature to the art of the written word?  The lingo of social media is absurd.  

“See you later, I’m off to blog about the meaning of life.”  

“Congratulations Bill, you’ve received a promotion.  Lets tweet about it.”  

Give me a break.  But enough about lingo frustration…  

My point is that this stuff is critically important.  How can people not realize this?  There is a camp of individuals dedicated to rolling their eyes when they hear the word blog, not because they hate the word itself, like me, but because they hate what it represents.  Did you know this?  To some people, blogging is nothing more than an opportunity for self involved people to force their trivial opinions on the general public.  ”Keep it to yourself,” the hateful little voice in their head screams, ” no one cares what you have to say!  Let the experts do the talking!”  Granted, these people are likely to be the same ones who form their political opinions based on what they hear on Bill O’Reilly, but it still blows my mind.  

What would happen if we all just sat back and let the experts handle everything?  

First and foremost, we may as well go ahead and put up a posting for our minds on Craigslist.  Big sale- intellect, creativity, innovation, inspiration- everything must go!  The moment we decide to let the smart kids do all the thinking is the same moment we surrender to mediocrity and complacency.  Then, one day, after a few decades of this narrow minded lackadaisical approach, the last of the “experts” would die, and the subdued masses would be left to wander around in their all encompassing obtuseness, bumping into things until they eventually became extinct.   

But it doesn’t have to be this way.  I say everyone should have a blog, even 5 year olds.  Especially 5 year olds.  

I say we can all be experts.  Pick something you are passionate about and write about it.  It’s that simple.  If it resonates with people, they will read it.  After awhile, you too will be an expert on the topic of your choice.  I myself choose write about myself most of the time, and let me tell you, I had no idea how much goes on between my ears! I’m a really interesting organism, and so are you!  Get to know yourself; become an expert on you.  It takes time and effort, but I promise the results will be fascinating.  Self discovery is such a beautiful process, but it won’t happen by accident.  

Maybe this all sounds a little self involved to you.  That’s because it is!  There is nothing wrong with being self involved, as long as you take time to involve yourself in other areas and people as well.  I love traveling and experiencing foreign culture, so I write about it.   I also love the human condition, so I write about that too.  What do you love?  Dinosaurs?  Write about them.  Music?  Write about it.  Your kids? Write about them.  Eating out?  Write about it.  Hating on blogs?  Write about it!  

Here’s my dream.  Some day, when everyone has a blog and is an expert in their field, we will no longer need to seek information from impersonal outside sources.  No more CNN.  No more Fox News.  We won’t even need to go to college.  Everything we need to know we will learn from our friends.  If I want to learn more about the art of volunteerism, I’ll visit Jamesfred’s Blog or Adventures in Oz.  Maybe I wish to have a better understanding of a strong woman’s perspective on life; Locoinnoco or The Housewife Diaries will give me that.  People will someday realize how much more interesting it is to read about their friends than celebrities they will never meet.  We will learn from one another, and about one another.  Our priorities will be realigned.  We will be conscious, kind, and happy.  We will do things together that we never dreamed possible.  

If there is a discouraging little voice in your head right now, don’t listen to it.  You ARE a good enough writer.  Your life IS worth reading about.  People DO care.  

Don’t believe me?  Give it a try and see for yourself.  

And finally, do me a favor.  If you already have a blog or have decided to start one, PLEASE tell me about it.  I will be an avid reader and I’d be more than happy to post a link on The Nomad Diary.  

Oh, and I almost forgot…  

Happy Father’s Day to all of the dads out there, to whom we sons and daughters owe so very much.